How do you start The Talk?
Before Cass was born, B and I hashed it out. There were fair divisions of things. There were discussions....about discussions. There were ideas, and waving of hands.
B will do the no drugs/smoking stuff.
I get the NO SEX (ever, hee) talk.
And now he's damn'near seven and noticing girls* (KILL ME NOW) and...
and I have no idea how to start.
I really think he's going to need the no smoking/drugs talk earlier than he'll need the sex thang (not because anyone's pushing heroin among the first-graders, but because I just think it's better to learn not to put things in your body before he knows...not to put anything in someone's body?? I'm so confused.) but B doesn't seem really pro-active about that, so...I bring it to you.
Websites? Books? Magazines?
*There are three (three!) in his class that he thinks are 'so pretty, Mommy, pretty'.