Tuesday, April 11, 2006

hair wars

I have a feeling my childrens hair is going to be a sore spot between my husband's family and myself. After bangsgate, I'm not worried at all that Bear will (EVER) pick up a pair of scissors (EVER) but I have qualms that C will come home with a Marine 'do.

C likes to go with his grandfather to get his haircut. He likes the 'big boy' feel of going out alone with his Papa - and they always visit people and hit the McNugget store, so it's a fun day for the boy. Papa uses a barber, as most men of his age do - it's a small shop, with two chairs and a decidedly older clientele. I'm not sure if it's the smell of the hair tonic or the ride he gets in the old pump chair, but C loves it.
I'm a bit leery of the ancient barber, though - his hands shake and the clippers he uses are bigger than my boys' head. One split-second twist of the head (which C is prone to do) and oops - there went the side of his hair. The only salvage method? Why, shave 'er down, folks!

That, coupled with the strangeness of R's growing-out bangs (thanks to her Dad) means I get a few questions about their hair. I'm thinking of taking smallgirl to my hairdresser and seeing if she freaks out or not - maybe a bob? Do they do bobs anymore?? I've resigned myself that R's bangs are never going to catch up to the rest of her hair - so what do I do now?

I know. It could be worse. They could have no hair. Of course, with the threat of the buzzcut hanging in the air for boyo, that might be a possibility.

6 comments:

Joke said...

My two sons get not-quite-buzzcuts for the summer, somewhat longer on top the other 9 months.

We go religiously the 1st Friday of every month.

-J.

morethan said...

oh i would feel exactly as you do! i would freak if anyone touched the hair on SJP's head without consulting me first. your fear is totally understandable.

wordgirl said...

No buzzcuts here. I think they looke like white supremacists or chemo patients. My boys get their hair cut where I do...a salon.

Ellen said...

My son's hair is way below his shoulders and part way down his back. He's not cutting it until Bush is out of the White House.

julia said...

ellen - An excellent idea!

Isobel has practically no hair as it is, although TCBIM and my sister insist she has a mullet. I've told them that if so much as one hair is touched, I will chop off their heads and use their skulls as beer steins.

Angela said...

When it comes to the girl child, hubby and I agree. We will let it grow and grow.

The boy children are different. Hubby thinks the shorter the better. (like himself) I think they look sweet and not quite as mean with it longer. Since he IS the one getting them ready for school in the morning, I no longer argue QUITE as much about the cuts.